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Break Away From the Couch and Explore Life ! April 10, 2007

Posted by Barry Goss in : Pre-launch Insight , trackback

If you’ve read MY stuff over the months and years (or, if you’re just getting to know me), you ALREADY know (or, will get to know) that I’m a big proponent of keeping self-growth and spirituality as RAW and REAL as possible.

Every once in awhile, I get into these candid and decidedly unmindful moments - moments that I know, if I thought I needed to perfect the message through an audio edit or two, wouldn’t have as much impact.

Here’s the way I look at: in living life to it’s fullest, you don’t get a “do over” !

So, here you go …. me, semi-raw and unbridled (well, the last half of the audio that is)

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Conversation has a kind of charm about it, an insinuating and insidious something that elicits secrets from us just like love or liquor. - Seneca (4 BC - 65 AD)

A single conversation with a wise person is worth a month’s study of books” - Chinese Proverb

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1. - April 10, 2007

Thanks Barry! Well said…in fact I had that very same thought over the weekend….same thing, looked at my bookshelfs and thought WOW….did these really make a difference? NOT… yes, there were some profound insights, but many of those selling their courses, books, audios, etc….are all saying the same things with different variations. It’s time to trust our inner knowing. It’s time to just do it! and know that whatever happens is ok. If it does or doesn’t work out, at least we’ve had the experience and that is indeed what we “know”, to be our truth.
Perhaps when we can relate experience with what we’ve read and learned, then and only then will it all come together.
Look forward to hearing more from you!
Thanks again,
Karen King
http://lifesecrets.wordpress.com

2. - April 10, 2007

Barry,
Thank you, thank you thank you……..the message you shared with us on your two little audios was perfect timing for me to hear and confirmed what I had already started to tap into and implement e.g. removing my email address from all the mailing lists I had accumulated over the years.
Moving away from the theory and back into the action and experience phase feels soooooo good.

3. - April 10, 2007

Barry,
just enjoyed listening to your audio. It turned out to be right in line with a couple of mails I had just read.
The first was a quote from mentor magnificent J. Krishnamurti: Can you practice awareness? If you are “practicing” awareness, then you are being inattentive. So, be aware of inattention, you do not have to practice. You do not have to go to Burma, China, India, places which are romantic but not factual. I remember once travelling in a car in India with a group of people. I was sitting in the front with the driver. There were three behind who were talking about awareness, wanting to discuss with me what awareness is. The car was going very fast. A goat was in the road, and the driver did not pay much attention and ran over the poor animal. The gentlemen behind were discussing what is awareness, but they never knew what had happened! You laugh, but that is what we are all doing.>

The second quote is a short extract from an Andrew Cohen mail: Lack of pretense equals presence…..that’s it.

4. - April 10, 2007

Barry,
I just wanted to say that I feel that you are a hypocrite. You talk about stopping and dropping all the latest courses, books, gurus, etc., yet you are in the midst of releasing a huge program which you are trying to sell to us. What is the difference in our buying and reading your course as opposed to some other huckster’s course/ book? You’re all trying to enlighten us and lighten our wallets at the same time. If we buy your course, are we then hypocrites, too, because we didn’t reject the latest guru/book/course (yours) ??? If we follow your advice, we will not buy your course when it is released next week. If we do buy it, then we’re hypocrites. Sounds like we can’t win in your world. If your mission in life is to enlighten people, why not give the secret to the Secret away for free ?

5. - April 10, 2007

Hello Confused,

I just wanted to mention a few things. Had you actually listened to the conversation with an open mind you may have heard the part where Barry says “If you can’t get out and explore the world to gain real world experience then the next best thing is our engaging interactive conversations” some thing along those lines. He goes on to tell you about how there is a difference about listening to people having a conversation vs. Someone talking at you.

I don’t recall anywhere where he said it is in fact a “Course”. Life is a “Course” to be lived and experienced. I think the time for pleasantries is over and it’s time to stop chasing a life of what could “be” and just go live!!!

Now on to your “Why don’t you just give it away for free” question. I think Harv Eker would answer you like this “Your Broke”. If everything was free there would be quite a problem with the way the world runs.

Let’s just say you spent over a year working with people, asking questions, recording, working on audios and transcripts, contacts, associates and partners to make one of the most in-depth investigative works on the law of attraction that has ever been done. Would you just give it away for free? Personally I know that the value of the information would be lost.

Free is nice but do you or does anyone for that matter take to heart and care as much for something that was given to them for free? It’s very rare. People tend to take better care of something they had to earn or pay for than if it was given to them for free. And on another note.. would the price of 2 dinners really lighten your wallet that much? (unless of course you are in fact broke)

So “Confused” I implore you to listen to the audio again and this time make sure you have your facts before you start posting away your “me to” comments. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but when you make them public you open them up to ridicule, especially when the opinion is not based on or has all the facts.

By the way aren’t we all in fact Hypocrites at one time or another? Like the fact that you are posting as “Confused and Searching” but your post comes across like you know exactly what you are talking about and even goes as far as labeling/criticizing someone else.

Good luck with that whole “Confused and Searching” thing, God knows I, and many others have been there also.

Harmonically Yours,
Jody

6. - April 10, 2007

I posted this on the previous blog:

Some of you sound like this knowledge (The Secret, LOA, or whatever you want to call it) is like an obligation, or like if you read 10 books all of the sudden: BANG! You are a Master of the Subject. Is like if the Dalai Lama, the Pope, a mystic, philosopher, an academic, etc. told me:

“I am not buying and/or reading, studying any more books on the subject since I have read about 10 years worth. I am as wise as I can be! Besides, spending more money and energy on them is just fruitless.”

Theologians have studied their sacred books for thousands of years and they still read, re-write, question and study new angles and manifestations of their religion. Philosophers, Scientist, etc. are alike….otherwise we would have been stuck in the World is Flat and Bleeding People to Death is the best way to cure them.

I am not patronizing any of you, but a Life of Knowledge is just that: A Lifetime of Knowledge! That is reading, analyzing, pondering, discussing books, ideas, theories, knowledge everyday…(My dad in many of his “wisdom phrases” used to tell me as a kid: if you have not learned something new today, do not go to sleep until you have)

If you believe that all knowledge is yours, or that you have bought enough books to fill 10 rooms therefore your quest is over, then you might as well go and do yourself a favor and re-read the first book that you picked up on the subject….and you will find, that in our life time the Quest and our Experience of it is never over…

7. - April 10, 2007

Barry. Thank you doesn’t begin to explain how much I needed this, I’ve always understood and agreed with the principles of LOA but have been waiting… waiting for the right course, searching the web, basically delaying integrating the principles into my life with doing something…
Perhaps I just needed to hear it once more.

Thanks again!

8. - April 13, 2007

I think it’s all about information overload. I’m there I don’t know about anybody else. It’s like the more you know the faster this LOA will work. I’m beginning to see this is the wrong approach. Knowledge is power don’t get me wrong. I just think we can overload ourselves and it turns into a bondage rather than a freedom. A vicious cycle for some of us. This should feel good not create frustration, confusion or anxiety. Those are counter productive VIBES. Go with the flow….a positive vibratory flow. That is what I got from this blog posting anyway.

9. - June 2, 2007

Knowing the LOA and using the LOA are two diffrent things.

100 useful quotes from “The Secret”

1. We all work with one infinite power
2. The Secret is the Law of Attraction (LOA)
3. Whatever is going on in your mind is what you are attracting
4. We are like magnets - like attracts like. You become AND attract what you think
5. Every thought has a frequency. Thoughts send out a magnetic energy
6. People think about what they don’t want and attract more of the same
7. Thought = creation. If these thoughts are attached to powerful emotions (good or bad) that speeds the creation
8. You attract your dominant thoughts
9. Those who speak most of illness have illness, those who speak most of prosperity have it..etc..
10. It’s not “wishful” thinking.
11. You can’t have a universe without the mind entering into it
12. Choose your thoughts carefully. You are a masterpiece of your life
13. It’s OK that thoughts don’t manifest into reality immediately (if we saw a picture of an elephant and it instantly appeared, that would be too soon)
14. EVERYTHING in your life you have attracted. Accept that fact .. it’s true.
15. Your thoughts cause your feelings
16. We don’t need to complicate all the “reasons” behind our emotions. It’s much simpler than that. Two categories - good feelings, bad feelings.
17. Thoughts that bring about good feelings mean you are on the right track. Thoughts that bring about bad feelings means you are not on the right track.
18. Whatever it is you are feeling is a perfect reflection of what is in the process of becoming
19. You get exactly what you are FEELING
20. Happy feelings will attract more happy circumstances
21. You can begin feeling whatever you want (even if it’s not there).. the universe will correspond to the nature of your song
22. What you focus on with your thought and feeling is what you attract into your experience
23. What you think and what you feel and what actually manifests is ALWAYS a match - no exception
24. Shift your awareness
25. “You create your own universe as you go along” Winston Churchill
26. It’s important to feel good ( ( ( (((good))) ) ) )
27. You can change your emotion immediately by thinking of something joyful, or singing a song, or remembering a happy experience
28. When you get the hang of this, before you know it you will KNOW you are the creator
29. Life can and should be phenomenal. It will be when you consciously apply the Law of Attraction
30. Universe will re-arrange itself accordingly
31. Start by using this sentence for all of your wants: “I’m so happy and grateful now that…. ”
32. You don’t need to know HOW the universe is going to rearrange itself
33. LOA is simply figuring out for yourself what will generate the positive feelings of having it NOW
34. You might get an inspired thought or idea to help you move towards what you want faster
35. The universe likes SPEED. Don’t delay, don’t second-guess, don’t doubt.
36. When the opportunity or impulse is there - ACT
37. You will attract everything you require - money, people, connections. PAY ATTENTION to what’s being set in front of you
38. You can start with nothing and out of nothing or no way - a WAY will be provided.
39. HOW LONG??? No rules on time. The more aligned you are with positive feelings the quicker things happen
40. Size is nothing to the universe (unlimited abundance if that’s what you wish). We make the rules on size and time
41. No rules according to the universe. You provide the feelings of having it now and the universe will respond
42. Most people offer the majority of their thought in response to what they are observing (bills in the mail, being late, having bad luck…etc..)
43. You have to find a different approach to what is through a different vantage point
44. “All that we are is a result of what we have thought” - Buddha
45. What can you do right now to turn your life around?? Gratitude
46. Gratitude will bring more into our lives immediately
47. What we think about and THANK about is what we bring about
48. What are the things you are grateful for?? Feel the gratitude. Focus on what you have right now that you are grateful for
49. Play the picture in your mind - focus on the end result
50. VISUALIZE!!! Rehearse your future
51. VISUALIZE!!! See it, feel it! This is where action begins
52. Feel the joy, feel the happiness )
53. An affirmative thought is 100 times more powerful than a negative one
54. “What this power is, I cannot say. All I know is that it exists.” Alexander Graham Bell
55. Our job is not to worry about the “How”. The “How” will show up out of the commitment and belief in the “what”
56. The Hows are the domain of the universe. It always knows the quickest, fastest, most harmonious way between you and your dream
57. If you turn it over to the universe, you will be surprised and dazzled by what is delivered. This is where magic and miracles happen
58. Turn it over to the universe daily, but it should never be a chore.
59. Feel exhilarated by the whole process - high, happy, in tune
60. The only difference between people who are really living this way is they have habituated ways of being.
61. They remember to do it all the time
62. Create a Vision Board - pictures of what you want to attract. Look at it every day and get into the feeling state of already having acquired these wants
63. “Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions.” Albert Einstein
64. Decide what you want. Believe you can have it, believe you deserve it, believe it’s possible for you
65. Close your eyes and visualize having what you already want - and the feeling of having it already.
66. Focus on being grateful for what you have already. Enjoy it!! Then release into the universe. The universe will manifest it.
67. “Whatever the mind of man can conceive, it can achieve” W. Clement Stone
68. Set a goal so big that if you achieved it, it would blow your mind.
69. When you have an inspired thought, you must trust it and act on it.
70. How can you become more prosperous?? INTEND IT!!
71. ‘Checks are coming in the mail regularly’… or change your bank statement to whatever balance you want in there… and get behind the feeling of having it.
72. Life is meant to be abundant in ALL areas…
73. Go for the sense of inner joy and peace then all outside things appear
74. We are the creators of our universe
75. Relationships: Treat yourself the way you want to be treated by others. Love yourself and you will be loved
76. Healthy respect for yourself
77. For those you work with or interact with regularly - get a notebook and write down positive aspects of each of those people.
78. Write down the things you like most about them (don’t expect change from them). Law of attraction will not put you in the same space together if you frequencies don’t match
79. When you realize your potential to feel good, you will ask no one to be different in order for you to feel good.
80. You will free yourself from the cumbersome impossibilities of needing to control the world, your friends, your mate, your children….
81. You are the only one that creates your reality
82. No one else can think or feel for you. Its YOU and ONLY YOU.
83. Health: thank the universe for your own healing. Laugh, stress free happiness will keep you healthy.
84. Immune system will heal itself
85. Parts of our bodies are replace every day, every week..etc… Within a few years we have a brand new body
86. See yourself living in a new body. Hopeful = recovery. Happy = happier biochemistry. Stress degrades the body.
87. Remove stress from the body and the body regenerates itself. You can heal yourself
88. Learn to become still. Take your attention away from what you don’t want, and place your attention on what you wish to experience
89. When the voice and vision on the inside become more profound and clear than the opinions on the outside, then you have mastered your life
90. You are not here to try to get the world to be just as you want it. You are here to create the world around you that you choose.
91. Allow the world as others choose to see it, exist as well
92. People think that if everyone knows the power of the LOA there won’t be enough to go around. This is a lie that’s been ingrained in us and makes so many greedy.
93. The truth is there is more than enough love, creative ideas, power, joy, happiness to go around.
94. All of this abundance begins to shine through a mind that is aware of it’s own infinite nature. There’s enough for everyone. See it. Believe it. It will show up for you.
95. So let the variety of your reality thrill you as you choose all the things you want. Get behind the good feelings of all your wants.
96. Write your script. When you see things you don’t want, don’t think about them, write about them, talk about them, push against them, or join groups that focus on the don’t wants. Remove your attention from don’t wants and place them on do wants
97. We are mass energy. Everything is energy. EVERYTHING.
98. Don’t define yourself by your body. It’s the infinite being that’s connected to everything in the universe.
99. One energy field. Our bodies have distracted us from our energy. We are the infinite field of unfolding possibilities. The creative force.
100. Are your thoughts worthy of you? If not - NOW is the time to change them. You can begin right were you are right now. Nothing matters but this moment and what you are focusing your attention on.

I hope you find these 100 quotes beneficial in not only KNOWING but USING the LOA

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